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Saturday, August 09, 2008
read a book dat inspires me tuh b a better person.
picked up a book dat i wanted tuh read long ago but find it too naggy tuh read on.it iish entitled making friend(a guide to getting along with people) by Andrew Matthews.its contents iish rly inspiring & it rly show how we usually treat others & how it affects our relationship between our friends & ppl ard us dat we care & love."If we only see our faults,we expect that others will see only our faults." which iish rly true fer me."Comparing ourselves to others is a trap." cos we should compare da present us tuh da past us nort tuh others cos we r a unique individual.parents,trs & lovers often say:" why cant you be more like your brother?" da answer iish because I'm not my brother.If i were i did b exactly like him.nobody can make u miserable w/o ur permission.5 steps to show dat u respect someone.1)LISTEN.2)EMPATHISE.3)IDENTIFY THE SITUATION.4)"WHAT ELSE?"5)"WHAT DO YOU LIKE ME TO DO?"tell ppl how u feel.if someone disagrees with me,my job is to let him do so,this makes life alot easier.solution to get things done.1)tell `em what u want.2)tell `em wad happens if dey do it.3)tell `em wad happens if dey dun do it.ur challenge in life is to be true to urself,to experience as much as u can,to treat others the way u like tuh b treated,and above all ENJOY ur life.if u lyk tuh find out more u may want tuh borrow my book but provided dat u'd take gd care of it & return tuh me wif da same condition lyk when i lent it tuh u.


tadas~ @8:39 PM